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Writer's pictureGeetanjali Chakraborty

Blooming Through Grief: A Client's Journey to Healing and Renewal


"Geetanjali, I've tried everything to lose weight, but nothing works," Leela (name anonymous), my middle-aged client said with a heavy sigh, her voice tinged with despair, as she stepped into my clinic a few years ago.


Leela was burdened not just by excess weight, but by a deep sorrow that had been festering for a decade. As we delved into her concerns, she revealed a heartbreaking story – she had suffered a miscarriage ten years earlier, a loss that had left an indelible mark on her soul. Despite having two children, the pain of that lost life had never truly healed.


As she recounted the incident, tears streamed down her face, a testament to the unresolved grief that still lingered. At that moment, I knew traditional methods wouldn’t suffice to heal such a profound wound. I suggested something unconventional – nurturing a plant from a seed as a symbolic journey towards closure.


“Why not try growing something from scratch?” I proposed. “Witnessing the miracle of life unfold might help fill the void left by your loss.” To my surprise, Leela embraced the idea wholeheartedly, even though she admitted she had a knack for killing plants.

She ordered Tulsi seeds online, and as spring arrived, nature provided the perfect nurturing environment for her newfound endeavor. Over the following weeks, we monitored the plant’s growth together, tending to its needs with care and patience. Each day, she would update me on the progress, her voice filled with a blend of anxiety and hope.


Our sessions continued, and with each visit, I noticed a remarkable transformation in Leela. She began to shed not just pounds but also the heavy cloak of sorrow she had worn for so long. Her face, once marked by sadness, now radiated a quiet joy. The process of growing the Tulsi plant was slow, but with each passing day, it grew stronger, mirroring Leela’s own journey of healing.


It wasn’t just the act of growing the plant that healed her. She made significant changes in her lifestyle and diet. She started waking up early, embracing the old adage of “early to bed, early to rise.” This simple shift had a profound impact on her mental health, bringing a renewed sense of purpose and vitality.


The day of our final appointment arrived, and Leela walked in, dressed beautifully in an Indian saree. She looked radiant, a stark contrast to the joggers she usually wore. I assumed she had an event to attend, but she smiled and said, “I dressed up for you and for myself.” Her transformation was not just about losing weight but about reclaiming her life and spirit.


Leela’s journey with the Tulsi plant was more than just a project; it was a path to healing. She found a way to honor her lost child, heal her wounds, and rediscover the beauty of life. Her story is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the healing power of nurturing life. Her journey revealed to me that the most profound healing often emerges from unconventional paths. Healing, I've come to realize, is a two-way street—witnessing someone's transformation not only deepens my connection with them but also fosters my own healing as a practitioner, making the experience all the more powerful and meaningful.

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